Fifty Patterns for Making Sense

 

1.  Situational ecology

 

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Study the whole situation and leave alone anything that is outside your power to control.

 

 

 

   
 

The best intentions in the world often run up against things which are out of the control of the individual.  Each situation that you are in happens against a background of decisions made by other people and agendas that conflict with yours.  The first step to good listening is to learn everything possible about what is going on AROUND the situation you are working in.

A consultant was asked to provide training in communication to the probation officers of a large city.  The probation officers were currently embroiled in a battle with the state judicial council over their right to carry hand-guns.  The same judicial council had haired the consultant but without telling the consultant anything about the hand-gun issue.  For one entire session the officers spoke only of their danger and of guns because of their assumption that the consultant represented their principal enemy. The ecology of this session made it impossible to get beyond the issue of the hand-guns.

A school district hired a consultant to provide inservice training.  The first session of the training was filled with hostility until the consultant learned that the teachers had not been informed of the training session until 3 hours before it was to begin. The hostility was toward the superintendent, not the inservice training as such.  The the ecology of the situation could not be ignored.  It was an important part of everyone's perception of the session.

Much of what goes on in our contacts with other people, either as individuals or working in organizations, is just not within our power to affect.  Look at the situational ecology first and just leave alone those things over which you have no immediate power.

 

   
   
 

Start locally (2) and learn by going (3) what changes in structure need to be made.  Communicate using the chain and network, not hub and wheel (9).  Optimize goals (18), do not try to maximize any dimension.  Be cranky (42) enough to let others know when you are not in agreement.  But be sure that you know what is going on outside your local situation, use creative wandering (44).

 

   
 

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