Fifty Patterns for Making Sense

 

44.  Creative wandering

 

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Get out of your own territory, not to claim new territory, but to watch and listen and learn.

 

 

 

   
 

Put five people into a room with chairs and before long they'll have divided that space up into personal territories.  You can prove that by asking them to leave the room and then return.  The best bet is that they will all return to the same seats.  In fact, if you doubt that, try moving the seats or worse yet, try sitting in someone else's place.  We make our territories quickly and then defend them against all comers.

In business, government, and other offices this territoriality shows up in the 'ownership' of everything from offices to restrooms and drinking fountains.  The bigger you are the bigger and better your personal territory.  There is a strong tendency in organizational life as well as in social life to make a territory and then never stray from it.

The problem with this territoriality is that the information we need to be effective in our organizations almost always lies outside our own territory in other people's territory.  We get nervous out there and so we tend to stay 'home' in our safe ignorance.

Management specialists are now finding that the most creative managers are those who wander around, out of their home territory, with their ears and eyes open.  To learn about others, to listen to others, we do best by creative wandering.

 

   
   
 

You can't learn much about the situational ecology (1) by hanging around in your own territory.  You can develop the ability to learn by going (3) and to use lateral messages (4) when you can see the situation from several points of view.  Wherever possible move around (10).  This will helop you to get to know people so you can cultivate your own humanity (49) and enjoy the humanity of others (50).

 

   
 

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